He is really caring and patient. I just feel exhausted as well as dumb. I think part of what is so tiring is I went from court, to lunch with the whole office, and then to T and then back to court. I had no time to just hide and lick my wounds for a while. I just had to cram down all the emotions and thoughts and get back to work.

Oh, Wikid, you would have been proud of me. There was a hornet in my car after T. I am allergic to stings, but carefully rolled the window down and let it out and then rolled it back up. Unfortunately, I caught his little leg in the window when it rolled back up. I was terrified he would come back in the car if I rolled it down, but thought the wind sheer would kill him or rip his leg off if I got up to highway speeds with him stuck there. I actually stopped, rolled it down and let him go. He flew off, luckily, and didn't come back in.