T's are human. It sounds like your T is inexperienced and probably did not realize the extent of your "problem" even though you told her.
Perhaps you liked that she was inexperienced because she gave into you.

Your T may do some of those things with other clients, but with you she could not and finally realized it was not working. It is like feeding a lion. Give too much or too long and your arm gets bit off.

She is not lying. She was realizing that she was not helping you and changing things. At least she seemed to recognize that her behaviors were doing more harm than good in terms of the therapy focus.

Sounds like she might have been in over her head and in her inexperience, she was easy to manipulate. As she spent more time, she changed things for you and her.