I am happy to say that..... I am happy I do not have to deal with my mother emotionally abusing me and manipulating me!!It has been a week now and I feel improvements already.I had laid down boundaries for my teen daughter that consist of she comes stay with me every other day until school starts next month than she will be with me threw the week and get to go to her grandmas on weekends.

She has followed these directions and we are starting to bond again.Tomorrow she starts with a T by herself while I go to my T in same counseling group!This is a HUGE step because before my mom would know I had made a T apt and she would take my daughter to the mall or something when she knew I made this T apt....My mother says to me all the time do not go to T's, do not listen to them etc. In reality my T has helped me stay alive threw REALLY HARD TIMES!

I told my mom we can start talking again once she starts therapy because she needs it BAD!So we will see....If not I am fine with my life being without my TOXIC MOTHER.