Simon, I just want to say thank God for your words. You make so much sense, and seem to understand exactly what I am dealing with. Sky and LMo, thank you to you both as well. I knew that coming here would be helpful, and I was right. You all make me understand that he has to want to get help, and will do it in his own time. However, some of the the behaviors resulting from his issues are extremely hurtful, and although I have discovered just how forgiving I can be in the last year, I hope help doesn't come too late. I love him, and yes I know he loves me, but I want him to be happy within himself. I truly believe that it's the only way we can have a 100% open, honest, loving marriage.

Thank you again all.

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