I am currently separated from my husband of 13 years. As each month goes by, I find myself getting more angry at issues. For instance, on the evening when we were initially dating and I disclosed my molestation history, his response was, "great, now you've ruined the evening." As we were on our way out to dinner. That devastated me. Several months later before being married, I was assaulted and raped while out jogging one morning in the daylight. I chose not to tell my husband to be based upon his response to the molestation. I feel as thought I have a lot of built up anger towards him because he did not acknowlege me in a decent, healthy manner nor did I feel as though I could approach him about the rape. I am getting ready to file for divorce for a myriad of other reasons. Does anyone think I should discuss these issues with him or just drop them? Thank you very much.