Yes I agree with everyone who answered, GET OUT HE"S ABUSING YOU MENTALLY. that is how it starts and often times turns pshysical. Get out while you can, go to a woman's shelter if possible and have no contact with him anymore. There are so many other nice men they are out there and you don't even need a relationship to save you-i mean don't go running into the arms of another abuser, they all seem to be attracted to women who are abused.Please get out!!!