That I stood my ground when my ex went into yet another demoralizing tirade against me.
As I always say...YES it's my fault the marriage ended and most of the problems were mine...BUT STILL....geeze-all-frickin-mighty....stop dumping on me just cause you feel like you NEED to remind me!

So I am glad I stood my ground and told her to STOP
(that didnt go over so well, but I had been forewarned that it probably wouldn't)