The second part of your post was spot on, I thought it was good advice.

The reason I remarked on the first part is you seem to be talking about double standards, otherwise what did you mean? Double standards was something you talked about on the height thread too. I just didn't see the relevance with it here - sorry - which lead me to believe that you had a problem with folk not being 'on your side' at the time, which you did remark on. You seemed sore. So apologies from me, but I am still left wondering why you make the first part of your comment.

Anyway, I am going to stop this, am hijacking, apologies to the OP too. I hope she finds some help and some peace soon.