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Old Jul 24, 2013, 08:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Elektra_ View Post
if the convos always ended up in him wanting sex... what should i assume? he wants to get to know me? even though i told him over and over that there would be no sex without a serious relationship. i sent him a msg saying there would be no more sex convo and he said nothing and after that he didnt msg me for 2 days!! im a supposed to not assume he wants to get to know me?? and not get pissed?

You are holding true to yourself. Sounds like you got your hopes up, and the guy turned out to be a total tool, for lack of a better word.



Doesn't matter so much where you met this one, typical of many, sad to say. Hang in there!!

I'd be p'o'd ,too!! He wasted your time. And then, didn't acknowledge your desire for getting to know one another enough to see if something serious could develop, instead brought it back to sex talk which in some ways is demeaning, it was disrespectful and you have every right to be angry!
Thanks for this!
Elektra_