Dottie first of all I want to tell you I am very sorry for your loss.
Secondly I know you are very angry with his girlfriend and putting alot of blame on her. He made a choice to drink.

My late husband chose to drink himself to death. Nothing I could say or do could stop him. I felt guilty for a very long time after his death for not doing more. I think if you can step back and take a look at his life and his choices you might find some peace.
Please share him with us. We all have strong shoulders to lean on anytime. We love you here. (((((dottie))))