T and I have never talked about transference and think my therapy and our therapeutic relationship is just fine.

I am sure there has been some transference going on.. Probably my fear of T "going away" now since I have shared some much with him is some transference in away. He just reassures me that that is not going to be the case, but never have used transference.

I think it may be more important to talk about when there is romantic or erotic, or wanting Ts to be our mothers or fathers. Those are strong feelings and aren't always roles that T can fulfill and would be important to talk about where those feelings come from and how to work past them.