Okay, so transference happens, parental transference, which I think T and I deal with a lot -- trust issues, etc. Do other types of transferences need to be discussed if it doesn't enter the room? Like, if things more or less happens like that as a result of feeling too far away and disconnected, but it doesn't happen often? Today, I felt halfway decent and wore a sleeveless shirt since it was so hot outside (I generally wear a sweatshirt), plus I had somewhere else to go. (I generally dress like this at work/home, etc) But this meant that I was feeling connected enough to trust him, more like in a parental role, it had nothing to do with erotic transference, quite the opposite. It's all so confusing, the torrential transferences. Today I told T I felt like not leaving and sitting under his desk (he was sitting away from it). He said that sounded like my child part, and then I left and I still feel kind of empty. lol I wonder if that part of me is still sitting there, now in the dark?