Wow, sounds like you have some rough decisions to make. I've been in a rural situation like you before, and I've also lived with a hoarder. I have hoarding tendencies myself, (or, more accurately, I'm disorganized and keep a few too many things) but it's different when you're surrounded by someone else's junk instead of your own. Having to look out for someone else when you have problems of your own isn't ideal either. Are you able to work at all? Simply getting a part time job or volunteering somewhere would probably be a major help to you. I'm guessing it would be difficult to convince your dad to relocate? It would probably be in both of your best interests if you could.