The problem for some us, as you and I have discussed, Rainbow, is that it appears sometimes that you wish to validated and encouraged in behaviors and thoughts with which some of us disagree very strongly. Even when that disagreement is expressed in a fairly restrained or polite manner, it is often met with a strong negative reaction -- not always from you, sometimes from your supporters or others who engage in the same behaviors and thoughts and wish to have those behaviors and thoughts validated also. You individually have made progress in that area, although obviously it still upsets you at times.

I think if you choose to continue to post, you really do need to come to grips with the fact that there are those who are concerned about your T's actions and inactions, not just because of you, but also because she may be making those same errors (or what we perceive to be errors) with others and encouraging thoughts and actions some of us perceive to be quite unhealthy and harmful to the person in therapy and to the people around the person in therapy.