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Originally Posted by My kids are cool
Apt, I was thinking exactly the same as FKM. Your H sounds like an *** who I could not live with for any length of time. Not wanting to even discuss the plans? What the hell is up with that? How do either of you know what the plan is if you don't discuss it and divide the tasks? What is so difficult about that? How controlling is he that he expects you to mind read and entertain his friends on his terms without him there?
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I dunno, I guess after living together for over 17 years I should be better at knowing these things. Or at least I should be better at talking to him. I feel that I'm painting a very misleading picture of H here - he really is a good guy. He can't help it if I'm conflict avoidant.
But you know, I don't really know the first thing about living in a relationship. (Which again is not H's fault.) I point at the Wilde quote in stopdog's signature; I have no right to expect H to adjust to how I want to live.