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Originally Posted by My kids are cool
Stopdog, you continue to confuse me. You often disagree with me and quite strongly. When I or someone else disagrees with another's person behavior or things they say, you tell me to avoid criticizing and just move on. Why am *I* or Wikid or whoever not allowed to tell someone I am bothered by their statement or behavior when you seem fine with others including yourself disagreeing so strongly with me and even engaging in name calling (not you but others).
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Because disagreeing, criticizing, and moving on are 3 separate things. After you disagree, you can just stop. If you continue, then it might turn into criticizing. If then you still continue, it becomes time to move on. It's the difference between disagreeing, and beating it to death. As we say in the mafia.
Eta: I didn't used to know this. I like that I do now, and that I can stop after just disagreeing. Most of the time!