I do not think it is a matter of "allowing". Everyone makes mistakes all the time, it is how humans learn. T's are not us, cannot know what we have inside our heads, what we feel, until we tell them, specifically, each time. We all change constantly too and what bothers me today might not bother me tomorrow, just like how I feel right now I might not feel next week.
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