the japanese sand raking thing... its in a scene from the kids movie Cars 2 - and it just makes me think of Rabbit in Winnie the Pooh...just gets the garden perfect and there comes Tigger...

guess what I'm saying is hard to enjoy the smooth sand and perfect ice when you know its going to get ruined... but for that one moment in time its perfection...its how I feel after all the laundry is done on Sunday night and there are no clothes in any hamper...

then the kids put on pajamas...and it all starts again...

ETA: I could never be your T SD because the only references I can make is to children's literature... or movies...