So if you read my other recent post I was in crisis for not having meds now I started topamax along with my abilify and Zoloft and topomax is kick icing my rear it totataly makes me dopy at 50 mg twice a day any way my h is a bit disabled and Ali lazy and my mil is alot lazy and I get stuck taking care of them and the house including all meals my h tells me well only take one pill at night so you could do all the housework and feed us or do all the work before taking your pills mind you I'm still suffering from withdrawals I'm sticking to my boundaries and telling him that is very inconsiderate but it's still hurtful and when I yell he calls me manic and violent and actually I'm a bit depressed he even wanted me to cancel my crisis appt next week because he has a toe appt of course I won't but I'm in beg right now I hate that he calls me lazy I'm telling him it's the effects of the topamax am I bein wrong for feeling hateful towards his behavior