It sounds like you are being honest and fair with yourself--that's an important part of any relationships. Yes, it's difficult to trust somebody when you see them lying to others--that makes sense. After you take an in-depth look at yourself (which you have) you can go by what you believe according to his behavior. Sorry, I did not intent to sound like advice--I try not to do that. What I really want to say is that you are on the right road I and respect how you have examined your own feelings and motives.....D.