I agree with MKAC. I don't see these diagreements of how your T handled certain parts of your therapy as criticism-at least not in the way that I think you perceive it, Rainbow. I agree that you have improved a ton in how you react to anyhting negative being said. You are much less defensive than you used to be.

That being said, you are not going to get everyone who agrees with you or your reactions or your therapy on PC, or real life. You can choose to ignore any posts that you think are "wrong," and tell yourself that their opinion is different and leave it at that. Maybe when you write the original post you can state clearly either for yourself or in the actual post, what it is you are looking for. If it is just validation of your feelings, then thats fine. If you say that, i would prepare yourself for your threads to probably not have as many responses. I

In the end, what does it really matter if X amount of people think your T should not have held your hand? Or given email but took it back. Or saw her as inexperienced? Its just another viewpoint that you can consider and dismiss if you wish. You always get a ton of responses, and i would feel grateful for that-because either way it is forcing you to think abt your therapy, and hopefully help in some way.