I like a t to make mistakes sometimes (depending on the mistake) but it makes them appear normal and capable of being human. I had a rupture with a new t during the year and I learned a lot from her mistake. We emailed back and forth until it was sorted and she thought me a lot about mistakes and how usually the person whom didnt make the mistake but is on the receiving end of it, chooses to hurt themselves more by believing the mistake was intentional or malicious when in fact it was just human error.