I think the anger can be empowering. Its making you look at what works and what doesn't.

I think having a female dr makes sense especially when u think you'd be more comfortable. It's not sexist. Sexist would be saying only female drs are good. You're not saying that.

It's your health and you deserve what works for you. I prefer a female for gynecology. I don't want a man all up in my business. And i prefer a female for my mental stuff for the same reason. I'm more comfortable. That's it. And being comfortable with our healthcare provider is very important.

What do u think your mom's objections would be?

Do you have to waif for weeks before you can make a change?