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Originally Posted by boopei
but he always made sure the bills were paid, until now.
We were both paid last Friday (his last pay of old job, which was $800 shy of what it should be), and my pay. Yesterday, it was all gone. All of it. He had my debit card, and although he was saying no worries, I have it all under control, don't worry babe.. it wasn't.
Our internet, phone and cable was shut off, because of a miscommunication between him and the provider. That stuff happens, it's irritating but it's ok. But what got me, he drained my account. He didn't buy anything for himself or anything like that,
but I'm hurt.. and feel betrayed.
Am I justified to feel a bit upset over this though?
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Are you justified, to be upset over this? Yes! I know, in my area, it takes being behind by two months, in order to lose electric, cable/satellite, and landline phones. cell phones, vary on provider. My provider, 3 days late, it's a shut off...hasn't happened, but I get the parameters of my billing cycles.
Why was his payroll shorted, $800? And also, I'd highly recommend, what's already been suggested, yours/mine/ours accounts. I grew up, feelings that what's yours is mine and what's mine is yours, however, I've seen, all too often, it just doesn't work out, quite the way other's would hope. Could be, my paycheck, your paycheck, household joint account and a savings for whatever account, as well. 4 accounts. Wouldn't share retirement accounts, and it gives a level of control to each person in the home. Just in case, in times like these, when the stress is getting to the person in charge, the other person isn't left without a cushion to fall on, and gas in the car.
