No, I'm with hamster on this one. This whole relationship or something sounds shallow and not based in reality. Like these 2 people are very young and not really talking to each other. If they get married, they are both in for some big surprises. If you keep such a big secret from someone, you are probably "trading" for keeping their secret. It's a dangerous game, I think is hamster's point. Like they say, if it serms too good to be true, that's because it probably is.