That I do understand Hankster, and yes, thinks that seem to good to be true usually aren't, I'm no stranger to that. I'd guess that this is a young couple just starting to feel each other out. I think her main concern is how to tell him and when more so than if she should or shouldn't. That;s just me reading the context tho. Everyone does need to figure out some things the hard way, it sucks but it's the best way to learn. If her bf can't accept her flaws then he isn't right for her, and it's better to come right out with it early on and not wait too long to say something. Sometimes wording can be taken wrong and slightly abrupt. Basically what I mean is there could have been a nicer way to share insight or advice.
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