You know, Hamster-bamster, that makes complete sense. I get so anxious and angry that I have a hard time seeing what's going on in my own head. I used to work in social services so you would think I would have a clue but I'll tell you, it's hard when it's personal. I didn't block him but I hid his posts so I don't see them anymore (as well as the posts of my younger siblings since they tend to include him). I know it doesn't fix it but out of sight, hopefully out of mind. I feel better already: more at peace now that it isn't leaking into my daily life. It's funny that I went to cognitive therapy for so many years and never really brought it up. I guess when I have insurance, I'll have to go back and deal with all of this stuff. I could bury it again but I know it'll come back to bite me in the butt one fine day. Thanks for listening and for helping me.