Thread bump: I'm on Social Sex just looking to get some right now. Apparently even there prior sex is a requisite to get some action . There's one gal whom I'm chatting with, but she won't even meet up with me whenever I propose a hookup. I'm getting so frustrated with the entire exercise.

I'm seriously ready to just give up on ever having sex or love in my life, because I'm too obvious about my virginity. No, I don't mention it at all, but I don't mention anything about any sexual escapades so women I believe take that as a clue that i don't have any experience. If I had my life to live all over again I would've thrown away the values I grew up with and screwed someone in a drunken tizzy just to claim I've had some. I wish I would have been taught that sex was needed as a pre-requisite for love I can't deal with any more dammit, I can't. What do I have to do!??!?!?!?!!

I've also permanently deleted my OKCupid account, as that has been the site that triggered my feelings and caused me the most anguish.