like i said i guess i am truly the A,S,S for pointing out that that one of the people who seems to think they are the crusader for the unjustly treated can be just as mean as the people she seems to have decided are mean.

again i wonder how it is that it is Honorable to make sure the person you have ignores or chosen or not respond to knows this along with everyone else. to me if someone got on here and said oh i promised not to respond to someone and oops i did it and now am deleting it .i would find that hurtful and humiliating .especially if the person felt the need to name who she is NOT responding to .in turn is responding to that person. I FEEL it is humiliating ,manipulative, and has continued on for no reason .oh and hypocritical also. but hey I"m a jerk and so on now also what do i know .

why not let people work on, work through there stuff without meanness. it was pointed out to me HARSHLY when the mean police felt i was being mean and i have tried very hard to change my way of thinking when it was kindly pointed out that my responses may have chased away someone who might have truly needed help it was a wow moment and i am trying hard. i have always had trouble interacting with people and have learned a lot of the do's and don't here regarding that. it was amazing .if i offended someone it was explained to me in a respectful manor and i learned it was safe and non judgmental. a learning experience. i am far from perfect and have a lot to learn and USE TO learn a lot from here. no more.

i cant help but feel now some are being mean,judgmental,and very critical of others that they are accusing of being the same. some how trying to justify there mean response by claiming some moral necessity to defend the perceived attacked person. or some sort of eye for an eye response. it is amazingly hypocritical if you ask me.(STOP I'm sure this does not matter to you but i feel i need to say it..i believe you are genuine in this cause .i do believe this kind of thing you see bothers you and you feel compelled to speak for the perceived underdog or person who you feel is being attacked unjustly.just my thoughts .although i do not FEEL that all who seem to have joined you in this have the same intentions .i feel they are using this stand to be mean to people they don't like. i may not always agree with you in these matters but i do understand .and also see you working on your stuff around it and trying to see both sides . again just my thoughts on it.

you know MKAC probably knows at times her respond is over the top etc...she has said this .i bet she no longer needs the mean patrol to point this out to her so meanly or critically .i bet the message has gotten through and i see her working very hard to understand her issues around this and learn and try to figure things out despite the MEAN reactions from some. great work MKAC sorry to be talking about ya like you are not here.

anyway i have had little sleep and am basically decided to become a self proclaimed witch with a B .and am sure ill be torn to shreds by the mean police if not publicly at least in there heads and be shunned on the couch but hey can it get any worse for me around here anyway . at least i can speak my mind coming from a place i can loose no more . invisible can sometimes be a good place.