I realized while writing something that I don't share a lot about how I feel with my H...so last night he gave me a back rub and I talked about how I think and feel in my head... It was amazing...he didn't take on my feelings...he let it be about me...

Turns out maybe his t knows something after all....h's t told him that when he takes on my feelings it pressures me to feel a certain way and could lead to me feeling trapped.

If he can be like he was last night then I have hope.