Hi Sweepy,
In the earlier times of my depression, my h did not understand how it affected me. He also thought I could do more than I really could. My suggestion is to stand your ground as far as what you can, and cannot, do. Don't let him push you into trying to do too much, and then crash. But also, try hard not to yell. Stay as calm as you can, but stick to your gunes. Let him know that you are doing all that you can right now, and that you must take care of yourself. Otherwise, you will not get well and be able to help anybody else in the family.
Stay calm. . .stay strong!