Oh - I didn't realise that that was what was behind that poll. I thought it was caused by the hand-holding discussion in a different thread. (Not that I would have responded any differently.)

FWIW, I support you - and I would have supported you if you had stayed, too. Maybe you could have worked throught he ruptures and maybe it would have been good for you to do so. Maybe not. In any case you have a different T now who seems to be helpful, and who might help you view things from new angles, and that is surely a good thing.
My major beef with Madame T was that she didn't really seem to acknowledge your Aspberger's. It's a factor in your personality, and it affects how you interact with others; it's pretty weird for a T, regardless of which methods they use, not to recognise this.

Sorry if this was inappropriate. I really just wanted to say that I don't think it was the wrong decision to make.