I know you said that this t was bending the rules in order to see you, so just getting out and getting a new one would not be easily done. But at least if one t was, there might be another one somewhere..
I'm lucky that where I am I use a few different agencies for support, and it's all government funded. They don't communicate with each other but they're aware I use different services. I guess the way I started was calling help lines - the ones where they hire professional crisis workers/counsellors to answer the phone. Over the last 6 months they've gotten to know me on both lines that I call, and always help me with resources. Like I said, I'm very lucky!! But also stubborn, something that I needed to make it through the health system until I found the right people.

IJ