OMG.... I am about to implode. The buyer wants an extension, the lender wants another month to close and we are already both moved out and in need of our funds. I am about to lose it. W is at the house too and I can't help but get angry and want to take it out on her, because she pushed the sale of the house and now look at the mess I am in. Finacial ruin is in my near future. I emailed the lender both agents and underwriting and said If they need more time I need a date or I will NOT extend the contract ( they have had 7 weeks to close ) and Ill put it back on the market. Of course Ill file bankruptcy then as I cant afford to pay all my bills and my new place and the old place.... I have no one to talk to about this either. W was furious I emailed everyone but I told her it's my house too and we did it her way and look where it got us.... PLUS I am trying to concentrate on my new job, then she comes to "visit" of all times....

SD I am not sure , I don't want to rock the boat until we get out from under the house and get our finances separated. She wants to stay in a long distance relationship but I don't know what I want right now. I am numb to the entire relationship thing and extremely bitter as to how this all panned out. Ok Ill stop complaining now, its probably best I just stay off here for awhile until I can strike a balance. The moment W showed up my anxiety shot up 100%, that's telling isn't it???