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Originally Posted by ak482
Thread bump: I'm on Social Sex just looking to get some right now. Apparently even there prior sex is a requisite to get some action  . There's one gal whom I'm chatting with, but she won't even meet up with me whenever I propose a hookup. I'm getting so frustrated with the entire exercise.
I'm seriously ready to just give up on ever having sex or love in my life, because I'm too obvious about my virginity. No, I don't mention it at all, but I don't mention anything about any sexual escapades so women I believe take that as a clue that i don't have any experience. If I had my life to live all over again I would've thrown away the values I grew up with and screwed someone in a drunken tizzy just to claim I've had some. I wish I would have been taught that sex was needed as a pre-requisite for love  I can't deal with any more dammit, I can't. What do I have to do!??!?!?!?!!
I've also permanently deleted my OKCupid account, as that has been the site that triggered my feelings and caused me the most anguish. |
That's pretty much how I feel. However I would never have the audacity to ask/seek for sex of any kind. I'm also a girl. Being a female virgin is beginning to have a stigma attached to it. No one wants to have to take it slow and be gentle and "break in" a virgin. Not when they can get a girl who's already properly trained and will do whatever the other person wants. I mean, why would anyone (male or female) want to make it hard on themselves? But then, that doesn't make sense to me—someone dating/hooking up with you wouldn't have exert any more effort to get you to have sex than they would the average person. Perhaps less.
I'm about to turn 25 and I can't deal with it anymore either. I haven't been able to deal with it for several years. I mean, I have more degrees than times I've been kissed. Not number of people I've been kissed, total kisses of all time. That's beyond sad. I could go on with even more depressing statistics, but I'm not going to...the point's been made.
And screw OkCupid. I've had (and deleted) at least three profiles on there for various reasons.
Maybe you would have better luck with other virgins...although good luck figuring out who they are. No one is going to admit their a virgin past the age of 21 (maybe it's even 18 now).