Hey Granite, I really do appreciate you so much, and I understand how you have been feeling. I have put a lot of thought today into not coming to PC as much, or at all. I seem to be hurting people without meaning to when I post, and sometimes people are ticked at me or reactive ABOUT me even when I don't post to them.

My thought at one point today is that I have a lot going on in my life anyway with my job and H and the kids and the horses and my friends. I don't need PC particularly, and it certainly isn't a stress-reliever anymore. However, there are people on PC that I enjoy very much, and you are included among those people, Granite. So, while I will post less than I did before, and more carefully, I am not going to just stay away. I hope that you will decide to continue hanging out with us.

I think I have a decent mental list now of things not to say, and/or people not to talk to. I am sure I will still make mistakes, and I do not guarantee I will remain silent when the safety of an animal or a child is at stake, but I am not just going to stop hanging out with people I consider REAL friends. Love you guys.