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Default Dec 03, 2006 at 09:20 PM
 
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Petunia said:
Hi onlymedid,

Welcome to PC!

I hear your frustration and I'm sorry it's so hard.

I am not an expert or professional but I don't think forcing anyone, especially people with DID, to do something against their will would be beneficial. Could be a small part of the reason she is angry.

It's too reminiscent of past abuse, in my opinion. I think as you go along she may want to be heard (or not) but she is listening so that's a start. Trust is major. It may take a while for her/everyone to feel more together and work as a group.

Petunia

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Thanks Petunia.
Yeah, she is really angry! I know it is due to the intense abuse we suffered. I am able to tell my T a lot of what happened, but I (me) have no emotion and I just know my little would feel better if she could express some of her emotions. I can tell my T how she feels, but it's not the same.
I think you are right, I will let her come out when she's ready. I really don't want her to feel too pressured.
Thanks again!

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