thanks everyone for your replies. to update, we're both doing great. i apologized to her for making her feel the way she felt and how i hated myself for not being more condsiderate of her feelings. we hung out the other night, i stayed at her place, and everything was well. i told her we don't have to take the test, and that I know we are both okay, and that I just freaked myself out a little bit. I pick her up again tonight, and am looking forward to the make up lovin'! She says she wants to get checked even though I said it's okay we don't (at least not right away) since she believes it will still be in the back of my mind when having sex. I will update tomorrow (hopefully it'll be a positive one!) with how things go.