I did up the divorce papers when she first left and found a guy almost filed but then she contacted me and told me I didnt have to right now if ever. I still have them saved and apart of me is thinking why not call her out tell her I have papers already and mail them to her maybe that would knock her out of the Hypomanic phase shes in and make her realize the mistake she has made. Make her realize she needs to come back home and work through things get help, properly diagnosed and medicated. I love her to much to stop fighting for us. When she is in her normal state she is the most wonderful loveing careing woman but each time she fears she is going to lose me she gets depressed then manic a few days to a week later.