recently T shocked me a bit by saying, at the hour's end, in an oh so casual voice, maybe next time we can talk about "___________ " that you once said ...

The next week I came in with a lot of things to talk about and didn't get a space for that till the end and just touched it; she does want to go into it. I have a feeling it will be this upcoming time.
and YIKES.

I don't mind going into the same things several times; but it makes me feel guilty and ashamed when SHE brings things back. Still a problem, SAWE, needs more work - the unspoken message I receive.

Of course, in this case she's right. And it's not small.