My mom is a totally crazy. She always picks fights and then yells at me for fighting with her. Every. day.
I have tried walking away before she starts fight with me, but then she'll take her anger out on me by yelling at me in a really snobby way the rest of the day. Usually whenever she gets angry she'll start screaming cuss words. Whenever I try to talk things out, she says she doesn't care and that her opinion matter more than mine and that's she's the parent and I'm the child and I can't tell her what to do. I always try to keep my voice calm and kind but it doesn't matter: she still gets really angry. She's thrown things at me before and we fight about once every day. I am really tired of it because my mom has always been like this and it seems like there is no way out.
She doesn't seem to notice that she's so mean: We are really good friends with this other family and they are always over and the kids don't like her either because she makes them do chores and starts bossing everyone around. Is there anything I can do?
Idk if this helps or if it could be a possible reason for her anger, but when she was 11 her mom died and she had to live with her dad, who she says was really mean to her and they never got along. But that was so long ago, and I would have thought she got her anger out about that already? I'm not sure. I just don't know why she would have all this anger on me and I'm actually really nice.
Sorry this was so long, but I really have a lot going on. Anything I can do?
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