Yes, it does take time...
for now i'm writing these down... may come up with more later...

10 Things I Am Proud of:

1. I have accepted my parents shortcomings and now have been able to begin helping my mother, in ways she wasn’t fortunate enough to receive
2. My love and care for people and love and passion for helping people
3. My ability to pay attention to detail
4. My persistence and perseverance, when I set my mind up to something
5. Forcing myself into social situations, it’s a lot of work, but I do make myself go
6. I have my own principles
7. I give myself time for myself (though sometimes I think I over analyze, and ponder and wallow in my depression and frustration more because of that)
8. I am a good listener (? I think)
9. My confidence that I will overcome or learn how to handle my issues efficiently
10. My ability to see the meaning behind most situations, the good, positive impact and ultimate benefits in them

10 Goals Of Mine:

1. Talk to people without blushing when they are talking directly to me
2. Learn how to take criticism
3. Learn how to accept compliments
4. Stop withdrawing myself, cutting off all connection for days and weeks at a stretch
5. Channel my negative energies into something more positive and constructive each day
6. To be more confident and learn to genuinely love myself
7. Give time to my appearance, take better care of how I look, carry myself
8. Learn how to keep in touch with people, attain the social knowhow eventually
9. To stop letting this mental and emotional turmoil interfere with my efficiency in my career
10. To complete my post graduation and start working in a few years