Kind of both I guess. I'm not sure how long I plan to stay single- I'm talking with my ex again and he wants me back. He agreed to get therapy and I told him that I wouldn't even consider getting in a relationship with him until he's had at least six sessions. Even then I don't know if I will or not. I'm not sure if he's the one anymore or if it's worth my time. I am not opposed to dating other people if I happen to meet someone but I'm not looking for anyone to date actively right now. Even if my ex were completely out of the picture I'm not ready for that so I guess I'm trying to adjust to being single for the time being until I've healed, whenever that is.