Well, I suppose, for me, having had almost zero positive, nurturing attention in my childhood might have something to do with it. I have noticed some of that here on the board too, particularly of late

It seems to be a gripe that most people have at some time here though

although some shout it out more than others

But it's just personalities, as well as disorders, the quiet ones do get left out ... and sometimes get "forgotten" although this board is mainly good in that respect I think (as we are nearly all human/bear...)
I am having a crap week basically

although it is in danger of turning into something worse
Thanks for your reply!
Take care,
Fuzzy