My wife and I have separated due to my lack of managing my bipolar. Since the separation I have changed my meds as as I have neglected to inform my pdoc of my issues, began therapy, and joined a support group. I have also changed my diet and began to go to the gym. I'm hoping she sees the changes but I'm afraid it's a little too late. I'm going to stay involved with my family because of the kids and the fact that I want her to see my changes. How do I go about reconnecting with my wife, without being too overbearing?