"I feel alarmed by her insecurity."

Favorite Jeans, I see your points and appreciate them. My feeling, which I hope to find confirmed when she replies to me, is that she said that in the heat of the moment. Therapists have feelings too, and may say too much on occasion. I've been telling her PTSD fits me to a tee for a couple/few months now, I imagine she's challenged by my recent level of doubt about everything under the sun, and made a valid response, if not a perfect one.