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I just saw your post about you feeling that the PTSD diagnosis fits, so it sounds like you don't think she's off on this, so you can ignore that part of my previous post.
It's in the relationship that she thinks the healing occurs and I agree
I definitely agree with this and I think it's the crux of a lot of therapy, especially with a history of trauma. But I have to say that I'm skeptical that the kind of relationship needed to develop to heal and to work things out can happen on line. I think this is best played out in person. Is this all via e-mail or also Skype? Of course this is just my -general- opinion, if you feel you can make progress and heal with her in this modality, then you know yourself best.
I do hope she learns to be accepting of criticism. Not only might this make you feel freer to say what's on your mind, but it's also good modeling.
I wish you the best and good luck.
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