Candybear said:

...my sister is trying to run my life.

My first reaction is you're kidding, but then I remembered your post was about your sister.

She has NO right to tell you how to spend YOUR money. She really thinks she is Queen of the World. I'm sorry -- I know she's your sister, and you love her, but she is really a control freak, and WAY out of line.

I'm sorry, but if she were my sister, I would divorce her. I don't like her, and I especially don't like the way she treats YOU!!!!!!!

Hugs,

EJ