Yes! Thank you all so very much for answering my question!
I do think I would qualify for being disabled, it's just, I live with my parents who have a decent income so I don't know if I'd qualify for government assistance, and there'd be no point to it, as we have a decent income.
I just wanted to be sure that when we do move to this apartment out of state that I could still have an ESA without being on government assistance.

But yes! Thank you all so much for the responses and the links!
It took a while but I read through them all and the information has been very, VERY helpful!