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Originally Posted by High Treason
Scenario 1:
1. Go to bar
2. Get drunk enough to hit on women
3. Find woman who is also drunk
4. Sex
-OR-
Scenario 2:
1. Meet woman
2. Ask her out to bar
3. Both get drunk
4. Sex
However, I recently met a woman and have gone on two actual normal dates with her. I mean I guess they are normal dates. I don't know what a normal date is. But basically this was the format for the two dates we have had so far:
Date 1:
1. Go to restaurant
2. Get to know each other and interesting conversation
3. Go to bar after restaurant
4. Not get drunk
5. More interesting conversation and laughing and fun
6. No sex
Date 2:
1. Go play pool together
2. Go to same restaurant as before
3. More interesting conversation
4. Go to different bar than first date
5. Not get drunk
6. Even more interesting and engaging conversation
7. No sex
I can't say that I find her terribly attractive physically, but she's not a bad looking girl, and I really enjoy being with her.
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Just to note that alcohol consumption often changes the threshold of attractiveness. Therefore, it could be the case that the current girl is, in actuality, as attractive in your perception as the previous cases were, but you are comparing apple and oranges, since you were looking at her through sober lenses.